Discussion:
Drums of Autumn and Genealogy
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Colleen Lill
2004-09-11 04:59:18 UTC
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A few weeks ago, I started re-reading the series for the umpteenth time. I
think I've read Outlander, Dragonfly and Voyageur at least 3 or 4 times
each, but Drums and Fiery far fewer reads. I'm now just getting into Drums
again and I came across her prologue and it really touched me.

I've been doing genealogy for 5 years now. There are now 2 obsessions in my
life - the wee buiks and genealogy! I read this bit in the prologue and it
struck me how related it is to genealogy, possibly with Herself not really
realizing it:

"I've never been afraid of ghosts. I live with them daily, after all. When
I look in a mirror, my mother's eyes look back at me; my mouth curls with
the smile that lured my great-grandfather to the fate that was me.

No, how should I fear the touch of those vanished hands, laid on me in love
unknowing? How could I be afraid of those that molded my flesh, leaving
their remnants to live long past the grave?"

And the very last line of her prologue:

"But a breeze passing in a still room stirs my hair now and then in soft
affection. I think it is my mother."

I think I read this last line a year or so after my mother died. And it
brought me to tears. There were many many times after she died that I knew
she was with me.

I wonder if Herself knows just how much simple words can move anyone so
much........

Colleen
aka Sassenach

ps - I have a true Sassenach story in my family tree. My great
grandfather - a scotsman married his second wife - an english woman!
--
A face without freckles is like
a night sky without stars!!
Kelly Cobb
2004-09-11 12:26:47 UTC
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That was sweet, Colleen, thanks for sharing.:o)

I think I've read Outlander alone 8 or 9 times, in bits and pieces. It's my
comfort book...I read it when I'm really stressed out or sick and it makes
me feel better. I understand better my daughter's need to watch the same
Disney movie over and over again. There's comfort in repitition and
'sameness'.

Kelly
Colleen Lill
2004-09-11 15:23:16 UTC
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I hear yah! Every time that I've the first 3 books, I just generally crawl
into bed and read to my hearts content. And get ticked off if my DH wants
to go to sleep!


Colleen
Post by Kelly Cobb
I think I've read Outlander alone 8 or 9 times, in bits and pieces. It's my
comfort book...I read it when I'm really stressed out or sick and it makes
me feel better. I understand better my daughter's need to watch the same
Disney movie over and over again. There's comfort in repitition and
'sameness'.
Kelly
Kim
2004-09-14 17:34:26 UTC
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Post by Colleen Lill
I hear yah! Every time that I've the first 3 books, I just
generally crawl into bed and read to my hearts content. And get
ticked off if my DH wants to go to sleep!
I simply instruct my own DH to avert his face from the bed table lamp.
Nothing comes between me and the wee buiks...not even him. :)

Kim
Angel
2004-09-15 16:51:05 UTC
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an off topic question out of curiosity!!

Who here reads in bed while their sig other is sleeping?
My husband doesn't "allow" me to do so.. so I started staying up at night to
read and then he got ticked off cus I wasn't coming to bed with him!

Angel
Post by Kim
Post by Colleen Lill
I hear yah! Every time that I've the first 3 books, I just
generally crawl into bed and read to my hearts content. And get
ticked off if my DH wants to go to sleep!
I simply instruct my own DH to avert his face from the bed table lamp.
Nothing comes between me and the wee buiks...not even him. :)
Kim
Modat22
2004-09-15 18:59:04 UTC
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Post by Angel
an off topic question out of curiosity!!
Who here reads in bed while their sig other is sleeping?
My husband doesn't "allow" me to do so.. so I started staying up at night to
read and then he got ticked off cus I wasn't coming to bed with him!
Angel
Post by Kim
Post by Colleen Lill
I hear yah! Every time that I've the first 3 books, I just
generally crawl into bed and read to my hearts content. And get
ticked off if my DH wants to go to sleep!
I simply instruct my own DH to avert his face from the bed table lamp.
Nothing comes between me and the wee buiks...not even him. :)
Kim
Just purchase one of those led book lites and it won't disturb him at
all.
Angel
2004-09-15 19:08:45 UTC
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I have a booklight..he says it still bothers him and keeps him awake..which
is bull cus he will be snoring and wake up and see I am reading and then say
its bothering him!

sigh

Angel
Post by Modat22
Just purchase one of those led book lites and it won't disturb him at
all.
aurora
2004-09-18 11:22:37 UTC
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Post by Angel
I have a booklight..he says it still bothers him and keeps him
awake..which
Post by Angel
is bull cus he will be snoring and wake up and see I am reading and then say
its bothering him!
sigh
Angel
Post by Modat22
Just purchase one of those led book lites and it won't disturb him at
all.
Hi, I have to say that I don't like it if the other one in bed is
reading....but... since my DH is reading Outlander, I "permit" him to read
in bed! :0)

greetings
aurora
Nicklshort
2004-10-06 02:37:15 UTC
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Post by Angel
an off topic question out of curiosity!!
Who here reads in bed while their sig other is sleeping?
Well, I kinda of get outta trouble on this one, and on two counts. Number one,
my DH works nights... so I can read to my hearts content and no one to bother,
at least most of time. Second, after almost 23 years, the DH knows I read in
bed, before bed and when I wake up in the middle of the night and can't
sleep....he just turns over and faces the other way. He just knows I have to
read.. and I mean have to..... Doesn't seem to bother him (sometimes he wakes
up, sees me reading, asks why I'm still up so late and rolls over to go back to
sleep.)
Nancy
Dana Compton
2004-10-06 03:28:18 UTC
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Post by Nicklshort
after almost 23 years, the DH knows I read in
bed, before bed and when I wake up in the middle of the night and can't
sleep....he just turns over and faces the other way. He just knows I have to
read.. and I mean have to..... Doesn't seem to bother him (sometimes he wakes
up, sees me reading, asks why I'm still up so late and rolls over to go back to
sleep.)
Nancy
Yep that is exactly what happens at our house. :)
Dana- horsekeeper to;
Asthor - 8 year old ASB gelding
Juan's Magic- 17 year old TB gelding

Dana Compton
2004-09-12 05:18:00 UTC
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Post by Colleen Lill
I read this bit in the prologue and it
struck me how related it is to genealogy, possibly with Herself not really
"I've never been afraid of ghosts. I live with them daily, after all. When
I look in a mirror, my mother's eyes look back at me; my mouth curls with
the smile that lured my great-grandfather to the fate that was me.
No, how should I fear the touch of those vanished hands, laid on me in love
unknowing? How could I be afraid of those that molded my flesh, leaving
their remnants to live long past the grave?"
"But a breeze passing in a still room stirs my hair now and then in soft
affection. I think it is my mother."
I think I read this last line a year or so after my mother died. And it
brought me to tears. There were many many times after she died that I knew
she was with me.
I wonder if Herself knows just how much simple words can move anyone so
much........
Colleen
aka Sassenach
ps - I have a true Sassenach story in my family tree. My great
grandfather - a scotsman married his second wife - an english woman!
Being a foundling myself it rather reminded me that no one in my life looks
like me or is anything like me but my children. It struck a sad cord for me.




Dana- horsekeeper to;
Asthor - 8 year old ASB gelding
Juan's Magic- 17 year old TB gelding
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